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Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

Last Updated: 19.06.2025 01:16

Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

That's not an interview for a stand-up artist.

BTW all the girls start their messages with a similar simple greeting.

People choose a partner by sexual attractiveness in the first place.

Ok, so this is a question seeking an answer to clear up whatever gymnastics are in my head. I'm a moderately attractive guy, sincere heart, genuinely looking to love another, established. Why don't women that I'm attracted to, want me back?

Because it's a standard phrase to start communication.

It's one of the reason why pickup trainings suck.

If she is not creative in her messages, no guy would care either.

How do flat Earthers explain the existence of other spherical planets?

If a hot girl pays attention to me it doesn't really matter what she says. Her attention is enough.

Of course, farther on when you start chatting moreover dating being smart and creative will really impress, but only as a SUPPLEMENT to attractive look.

No country for ugly people…

Do Americans realize how much goodwill and credibility they've lost in the past two weeks?